
Grab a coffee—or perhaps a glass of wine, depending on the day you're having—and consider this: some days feel like an endless uphill climb, with challenge after challenge making it hard to catch your breath. I know that feeling all too well.
This past year, I found myself standing at the bottom of a mountain that seemed impossible to climb (picture a snow-capped mountain and stilettos on my feet). I weighed more than I was happy with, was still healing from a total hysterectomy and foot surgery done months apart, and felt utterly out of place in my own body. My energy was low, my motivation even lower, and every woman I saw seemed to be effortlessly gliding through life like a fitness model. Me? I could barely get out of bed some mornings.
But something in me—probably that tiny voice that refuses to be silenced—said, You’re not done yet.
And guess what? I wasn’t.
The Uphill Battle
I decided that enough was enough. I wouldn’t take this new chapter in my life lying down. I drastically adjusted my eating habits and regularly went to the gym with my husband. Losing twenty-five pounds over the last five months has been grueling. I won’t sugarcoat it. My husband, who just so happens to moonlight as a professional bodybuilding champion (inner eye roll), reminded me that small choices, like opting for grapes instead of gummy bears, would eventually add up.
And they did.
But it wasn’t just the weight loss that made a difference. It was the journey of finding my strength again. I began to build not only muscles but confidence. Now, I stand here proud of my lean, strong body, thankful that I didn’t give up, even when I wanted to.
Writing a Book? It’s the Same Climb
Reflecting on this transformation, it strikes me—writing your first book is its own kind of uphill battle.
When you see those shiny, polished books on your local Barnes & Noble shelves, glistening under those soft, flattering lights, you may wonder, “Will that ever be me?” Getting from a blank page to a finished, bound masterpiece can seem as distant as running a marathon when you’ve never even laced up your sneakers. It will feel like an uphill climb, especially at first, but the challenge is what makes reaching the top so rewarding. And just like I didn’t drop twenty-five pounds overnight, you’re not going to become a best-selling author by sitting on your hands, hoping for a miracle.
Small Choices, Big Payoffs
What got me through those tough days in the gym was realizing that every small choice I made throughout the day was moving the needle forward.
The same rule applies to writing. You don’t need to write an entire book today. You don’t even need to write a chapter. But you do need to write something. Maybe it’s just 200 words on a sleepy Tuesday. Whatever it is, each small decision to pick up the pen or your laptop will move you closer to seeing your name on that shiny book cover.
Building the Writing Muscle
Do you know what strength training has taught me? It’s not about the weight you lift today; it’s about consistency. It’s about showing up, day after day, and putting in the work. One pound turns into five, five turns into ten, and before you know it, you’re stronger than you ever thought possible. Early on, I remember leaving the gym in tears because I was pushing my body to a place it had never been to.
Writing works the same way. The more you write, the stronger your writing muscle becomes. Those first few days may feel like you’re lifting 100 pounds with zero training, but the more you do it, the easier it gets. Over time, you’ll find your voice, rhythm, and confidence as a writer, even if you first want to chuck your notepad (or laptop) in the trash.
Find Your Support System: The Power of an Editor
What made a huge difference in my journey was that my husband wasn't just a cheerleader—he was my guide, coach, and motivator. He encouraged me when I wanted to quit, pushed me beyond my limits, and celebrated every milestone. He kept me accountable, strengthened me, and reminded me why I started.
When it comes to writing, this is precisely what an editor can do for you. Writing, like weight loss, is a personal journey—but that doesn’t mean you have to do it alone. An editor is like a guide on your writing journey. They push you to dive deeper into your story, hold you accountable, and cheer you on as you hit milestones. More than polishing words, they strengthen your manuscript, provide clarity, and keep you on track, helping you build the writing muscle needed to create a book you’re proud of.
Stay the Course
My advice, sister: stay the course. Whether it’s fitness, writing, or any dream, the journey may be slow and tough, but not impossible. Take it one step at a time, show up even when you don’t want to, and make small choices that bring you closer to your goals. Celebrate every victory, no matter how small—it gives you strength. I once stayed behind the scenes, but faith and perseverance have led me to step into my own light. I want the same for you. One day, you’ll look back and realize you’ve transformed into exactly who you were meant to be. Whether in a new body or holding that first printed book, you’ll be so proud that you stayed the course. My journey is proof that tiny choices lead to major transformations.
So, grab those grapes instead of the gummy bears, write that paragraph even when you’re tired, and trust that the climb is worth it. Keep pushing. Keep climbing. Keep believing in yourself.
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